Buying a home? You’ve probably heard plenty about down payments and mortgage rates. But there’s a third factor that can sneak up on buyers: closing costs. These expenses can change the math on your purchase, and if you’re not prepared, they can cause serious sticker shock on closing day.
This guide breaks down what closing costs are, how much you should expect to pay, and how they vary by state. By the end, you’ll know how to budget, negotiate, and approach your closing with confidence.
What Are Closing Costs (and Why They Matter)

Closing costs are the one-time fees you pay to finalize your home purchase. They’re separate from your down payment and include services like appraisals, title work, government fees, and prepaid expenses for taxes and insurance.
Think of them as the “administrative fuel” that pushes your deal across the finish line. Without them, the lender won’t fund, and the seller won’t hand over the keys.
The Short Version
- You’ll pay a mix of lender fees, third-party charges, government taxes, and prepaids.
- Some costs are negotiable; others are locked in by law.
Where the Money Actually Goes
Closing costs typically fall into four main buckets:
- Lender & Origination Fees – underwriting, processing, and points.
- Valuation, Title & Settlement – appraisal, title search, and closing agent.
- Government & Recording Fees – recording your deed, transfer or excise taxes.
- Prepaids & Escrows – taxes, insurance, and interest upfront.
Who Pays What? Buyer vs. Seller Basics

Customs vs. Contracts
While many states have “norms” for who pays what, everything is negotiable in the contract. In a hot market, buyers may cover more costs; in a buyer’s market, sellers often chip in with credits.
Regional Norms You’ll See
- Attorney closings: Common in the Northeast and Southeast.
- Escrow/title closings: Standard in the West.
- Transfer taxes: Often split in some states, while entirely buyer- or seller-paid in others.
How Much Should You Budget?
The 2%–5% Rule of Thumb
A safe estimate is 2%–5% of the purchase price. On a $400,000 home, that’s $8,000–$20,000 in closing costs.
When You’ll Need Extra Cushion
- Condos and HOAs (extra resale/transfer fees)
- New construction (builder admin fees)
- Coastal/flood zones (insurance premiums)
- Buying down your rate with points
Line-Item Deep Dive: What You’ll See on the Bill

Lender & Origination Fees
- Origination & underwriting fees
- Discount points (pay upfront to lower your rate)
- Credit reports, flood certifications, verification charges
Rate-Dependent Costs (Points)
One point = 1% of the loan amount. Pay more now, save monthly later. Good if you’ll stay in the home long-term.
Valuation, Title & Settlement
- Appraisal (plus possible re-inspection fees)
- Title search & insurance (lender and optional owner’s policy)
- Settlement agent or attorney to finalize everything
Government & Recording
- Recording fees to register your deed
- Transfer taxes or doc stamps that vary dramatically by state
Prepaids & Escrows
- Property taxes (often prorated)
- Homeowners insurance (usually one year upfront)
- Per-diem interest based on your closing date
Loan-Specific Nuances
- FHA: upfront mortgage insurance premium
- VA: funding fee (sometimes waived)
- USDA: guarantee fee
- Conventional: may require private mortgage insurance
State-by-State Quick Reference
Here’s a broad overview (always verify local norms since fees can differ even by county):
Northeast & Mid-Atlantic
- NY/NJ: Mortgage recording and “mansion” taxes; attorney closings standard.
- MA/CT/PA: Attorney closings common; transfer taxes may be split.
- DC/MD: Significant transfer and recordation taxes.
Southeast
- FL: Documentary stamp taxes + HOA resale fees.
- GA/NC/SC: Attorney closings standard; deed/transfer taxes apply.
- VA: Buyer often pays recordation; seller pays grantor tax.
Midwest
- IL: Multiple layers of transfer taxes in some cities.
- IA: Unique Iowa Title Guaranty instead of owner’s policy.
- MI/MN/OH: Deed and mortgage taxes common.
Southwest
- TX: Regulated title insurance rates, no state transfer tax.
- AZ: HOA transfer fees standard.
- NM/OK: Title/escrow closings; some local deed taxes.
Mountain West
- CO: Modest recording fees; HOA transfer fees.
- UT/WY/ID: Mostly escrow/title closings, limited transfer taxes.
Pacific & Non-Contiguous
- CA: City transfer taxes in some areas; escrow/title closings.
- NV: Real property transfer tax + HOA resale fees.
- HI: Conveyance tax and notable condo documentation fees.
- WA: Real estate excise tax statewide.
How to Lower Your Closing Costs
Shop, Compare, Negotiate
- Get at least two lender quotes and two title quotes.
- Use competing estimates to negotiate.
Credits & Concessions
- Ask for seller or builder credits.
- Request lender credits in exchange for a slightly higher rate.
Timing & Tactics
- Close at month-end to reduce prepaid interest.
- Avoid rush appraisals and unnecessary add-ons.
New Construction vs. Resale
Builders often offer closing cost incentives if you use their preferred lender and title company. Always compare against outside options to ensure the deal really saves you money.
Cash vs. Financed Purchases
Cash buyers skip lender-related fees but still pay:
- Title and settlement charges
- Recording fees
- Transfer taxes (if applicable)
- Insurance and taxes
Interest Rate Cycles & All-In Thinking
Sometimes it’s better to accept a slightly higher rate with lender credits if you need to free up cash. Other times, buying down the rate pays off if you’ll stay long enough to recoup the upfront cost.
How to Read Your Loan Estimate (LE) & Closing Disclosure (CD)
Page-by-Page Walkthrough
- Page 1: Loan terms, projected payments, cash-to-close.
- Page 2: Itemized closing costs (spot areas you can shop).
- Page 3: Comparisons, APR, and other considerations.
Final 72 Hours
- Double-check wire instructions (always by verified phone).
- Confirm prorations, credits, HOA dues, and taxes.
- Flag unexpected “junk fees” and request corrections.
Buyer’s Checklist & Timeline
- 30–45 days out: Compare lenders & title quotes.
- 7–10 days in: Lock rate, order appraisal.
- Two weeks out: Finalize insurance.
- One week out: Review draft CD.
- 72 hours: Verify wire instructions and review final CD.
- Closing day: Bring ID, confirm keys/codes, store your owner’s title policy safely.
Conclusion
Closing costs don’t have to be a mystery. Start with the 2%–5% rule of thumb, then refine based on your state’s norms and your lender/title quotes. Whether you’re buying in Texas, New York, or California, knowing what to expect—and how to negotiate—can save you thousands and reduce stress on one of the biggest days of your life.
FAQs
Q1: Are closing costs the same everywhere?
No. They vary widely by state, county, and even city, especially when it comes to transfer taxes and attorney vs. escrow customs.
Q2: Can closing costs be rolled into my loan?
Sometimes. Seller and lender credits can offset costs. Some loan types allow rolling certain fees into financing.
Q3: Do I really need owner’s title insurance?
It’s optional in some states but highly recommended—it protects you against hidden title issues.
Q4: What’s the easiest way to cut costs?
Shop around for lenders and title companies, then negotiate using competing estimates.
Q5: Do cash buyers still pay closing costs?
Yes, though less. Expect title, settlement, recording, transfer taxes, and prepaid insurance/taxes depending on timing.